There are times in life when words are hard to find. Hi, this is Dorette Schaal with your dailyeword. It happened to many of us when we heard that Ryan Franklin, a beloved husband, father, son, brother, fire fighter, teacher, coach, mentor, friend, was tragically killed. When tragedy happens in a community, it saddens everyone. Because his family is well rooted in the Christian community of the Magic Valley, so many churches are affected by his passing. Having known his wife Amie since she was a teenager, it is personal for our family as well. Our hearts grieve for her, her parents, her sweet children, and Ryan’s family as well. This week, I will talk about ways to cope when tragedy happens. Here is your dailyeword.
What should we do when tragedy happens? What do you say when you don’t know what to say? How can you comfort someone who is hurting so deeply? There are no easy answers to any of these questions.
I have found these 3 things that help me in times like these:
1) Run Quickly to the arms of Jesus – Jesus tells us to come to him when we are hurting, when we are tired, and when burdens are heavy. (Matthew 11:28) His arms are open wide to love and comfort us, and He loves us through people who are in our circle of believers.
2) Worship Passionately – Nothing stills the heart like worshipping God through song.
There are so many wonderful worship songs that bring peace in the midst of turmoil. My favorites include “Still”, by Hillsong Worship, “Lord I Need You”, Chris Tomlin, “Trust in You”, by Lauren Daigle, and even hymns like “Great is Thy Faithfulness”, or “The Solid Rock”.
3) Love Deeply – Hold on tight to the ones you love. Give hugs liberally, kiss your spouse and kids daily. Make a choice to settle arguments quickly, and to forgive swiftly. Use your words and actions to let those you love, really know that you love them. Say the words “I love you” often. Life is fragile and things can change in an instant.