It doesn’t matter who you are, words can hurt worse than a wound. Mean words should never be spoken to anyone. We should never say them, and we should never hear them. That would be a perfect world, but we live on an imperfect earth, where we can be good examples and treat others like you want to be treated. Luke 6:31 tell us to do just that. I don’t like my thoughts or ideas being slammed, even in fun. I’m sure you are like that too. I know you hear people laughing when they are slamming someone else, but it is not Godly, and it is not right. We can be ones who treat others with respect, and choose to encourage instead of discourage others. So how about saying these kinds of words to each other:
You inspire me
I love being around you
You make me smile
You make me laugh
I have faith in you
You can reach your dreams
Your future is bright
There is nothing you can’t accomplish with God on your side.
The book of Colossians is full of buried treasure that benefits our relationships. In the second chapter of Colossians, verse 2, Paul writes, My purpose is that you may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that you may have the full riches of complete understanding in order that you may know Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. We are encouraged to “know and discover” all of what God has for us. He uses encouragement to help us grow in our relationship with Christ. That is what a good friend will do. Just taking time to use your words to build someone up has positive effects in many realms. Take time to use your words to build up your friends.