How can we make love a way of life in marriage? Is it really possible to have that heaven on earth type of relationship? I really believe that it is. We have so many tools that God has given us to have fantastic marriages as believers, and putting into operation the seven characteristics of love, and letting them flow back and forth from husband to wife is one of the ways. Three additional things we have a believers to enhance our marriages are these:
1)`The Love of God has been shed abroad in our heart – Romans 5:5 The God of the universe has placed the infinite power of love in us, to operate in our relationships.
2) We have the power of forgiveness – We are told to forgive one another as Christ has forgiven us as it says in Eph 4:32. There are times when we do hurt each other, and forgiveness is available. Let’s use that tool liberally.
3) We are given the ministry of reconciliation as it says in II Cor 5:18. When we need to compromise, and even agree to disagree about non eternal issues, we can be flexible. We have the power to reconcile.
So as believers, let’s put those tools into operation in our marriage. We want our marriage to demonstrate authentic love, the power of forgiveness, and the ministry of reconciliation. It is possible and as we learn to love authentically! We have the opportunity to experience a depth of relationship that is more satisfying than any temporary euphoria. Marriage was not designed to make people miserable! It was designed to be an expression of love, service and joy! When love becomes a way of life, marriage reaches its highest potential. Be kind, patient, forgiving, courteous, humble, generous, and honest toward your spouse. Even if these are not reciprocated immediately, your actions will reap benefits in the long run. Before long, you will enjoy the benefits of choosing love. So have a fantastic marriage! Let your family see love and forgiveness demonstrated in your home.
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